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Leonor ○ 16 ○ Brazil ○ she/her
Multi-fandom blogger. I mean it. TV shows, comics, books and I need more Star Wars blogs to follow. Also Buffy the Vampire Slayer should be mandatory watching. And I update this description far less often than I should. Oh well.

PRIDE Bone Cancer Awareness

gayisthenewokay:

happylittlebastille:

long-island-comedium:

SO YOU KNOW THAT POST ABOUT THE RED VARSITY JACKETS WITH LEATHER SLEEVES BEING THE LESBIAN UNIFORM???

WELL I WAS LOOKING AT THIS JACKET ONLINE:

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AND THEN I FOUND THIS REVIEW:

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AND I AM ABSOLUTELY LOSING IT

LOOK AT THE “BEST USES”

it looks even better out of the closet

OH MY GOD IT’S THIS POST IF ANY OF YOU ARE WONDERING WHY I’M LAUGHING MY ASS OFFimage

jennstarkid:

bshalloffame:

NO. NO. NO. NO. THIS MAKES ME SO ANGRY.
first of all, bipolar is nothing like hormones at all. bipolar causes long stages of mania and depression. your mood doesn’t just change all the time, that’s a huge stupid fucking myth perpetuated by people like you that don’t know shit about psychology. you go through long phases, weeks at a time, of mania, depression, or both. nobody gets diagnosed with bipolar because they have hormones. as someone who’s bipolar that offends the fuck out of me.
secondly, the reason mental disorders are getting diagnosed more in children is because we’re more aware now of what constitutes disordered behavior. guess what? that “loner” is probably suffering a lot. in 1980 he was probably suffering a lot too, but no one bothered to diagnose him because he was just “being a kid” or whatever the fuck you call it and because people didn’t take depression seriously.
people are occasionally misdiagnosed, but increased awareness and diagnosis in childhood has resulted in so many children that could’ve had much more difficult childhoods getting the help they need. it is so much better to diagnose more than less, because people getting no help for years of their life or even being told they don’t have a disorder and thinking that for the rest of their life and never getting any help at all is so much more of a problem than not “preserving childhood” or whatever the fuck you’re worried about. we’re talking many people’s entire lives being on the line. that’s much more important than your nostalgia-obsessed bullshit.
the rates of diagnosis have increased because there’s more awareness. more people that really need help are being diagnosed and helped because of it. parents are actually taking their children to get psychological evaluation now. and you know who diagnoses them? psychologists WHO HAVE BEEN STUDYING THE SUBJECT FOR YEARS. do you really think you know more than them about what disorders a kid has??? who the fuck made you an authority on psychology that’s somehow better than a person with a fucking college degree in it??? i know you’re all afraid of anything changing and so you try to find a way to make it evil and wrong but you don’t know shit about this subject and you’ve never studied it at all, so take this pretentious bullshit and shove it up your ass.


Story time: I was one of those kids who always daydreamed (especially in school) and had trouble getting my best grades because of it. Every report card came with comments about how I need to stop and my parents got calls for conferences because of it all the time. The only thing my parents did because of this was scream at me about how pathetic and disobedient I am and ground me over and over again. This went on for YEARS because nobody (including myself) knew why I wasn’t “just listening and stopping my bad behavior.” And it went on until one day my parents found scars on my arms and I told them I was suicidal. That’s when I went to a psychiatrist at 15 years old and they told me I have ADHD. This is why we shouldn’t under diagnose in children. Kids who have these issues deserve to get the help they need before something like this happens.

jennstarkid:

bshalloffame:

NO. NO. NO. NO. THIS MAKES ME SO ANGRY.

first of all, bipolar is nothing like hormones at all. bipolar causes long stages of mania and depression. your mood doesn’t just change all the time, that’s a huge stupid fucking myth perpetuated by people like you that don’t know shit about psychology. you go through long phases, weeks at a time, of mania, depression, or both. nobody gets diagnosed with bipolar because they have hormones. as someone who’s bipolar that offends the fuck out of me.

secondly, the reason mental disorders are getting diagnosed more in children is because we’re more aware now of what constitutes disordered behavior. guess what? that “loner” is probably suffering a lot. in 1980 he was probably suffering a lot too, but no one bothered to diagnose him because he was just “being a kid” or whatever the fuck you call it and because people didn’t take depression seriously.

people are occasionally misdiagnosed, but increased awareness and diagnosis in childhood has resulted in so many children that could’ve had much more difficult childhoods getting the help they need. it is so much better to diagnose more than less, because people getting no help for years of their life or even being told they don’t have a disorder and thinking that for the rest of their life and never getting any help at all is so much more of a problem than not “preserving childhood” or whatever the fuck you’re worried about. we’re talking many people’s entire lives being on the line. that’s much more important than your nostalgia-obsessed bullshit.

the rates of diagnosis have increased because there’s more awareness. more people that really need help are being diagnosed and helped because of it. parents are actually taking their children to get psychological evaluation now. and you know who diagnoses them? psychologists WHO HAVE BEEN STUDYING THE SUBJECT FOR YEARS. do you really think you know more than them about what disorders a kid has??? who the fuck made you an authority on psychology that’s somehow better than a person with a fucking college degree in it??? i know you’re all afraid of anything changing and so you try to find a way to make it evil and wrong but you don’t know shit about this subject and you’ve never studied it at all, so take this pretentious bullshit and shove it up your ass.

Story time: I was one of those kids who always daydreamed (especially in school) and had trouble getting my best grades because of it. Every report card came with comments about how I need to stop and my parents got calls for conferences because of it all the time. The only thing my parents did because of this was scream at me about how pathetic and disobedient I am and ground me over and over again. This went on for YEARS because nobody (including myself) knew why I wasn’t “just listening and stopping my bad behavior.” And it went on until one day my parents found scars on my arms and I told them I was suicidal. That’s when I went to a psychiatrist at 15 years old and they told me I have ADHD. This is why we shouldn’t under diagnose in children. Kids who have these issues deserve to get the help they need before something like this happens.

That awkward bi moment

thatawkwardbimoment:

when you watch a movie that is all about gay acceptance, with a splash of biphobia.

sushinfood:

lorriebm11:

When you do a click and drag thing but you keep getting ones that you don’t like so you retry until you get the one you want.

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This is the most goddamn appropriate gif-usage I have ever seen.

  #bby    #david luiz  

deniablesmiles:

the-ballad-of-peter-pettigrew:

(Sirius Black at 2am in the Gryffindor dormitory)

That description.

quamraeros:

tomfletcherscats:

tomfletcherscats:

this is how u use tinder right

he came out of left field with this one


Marry him

quamraeros:

tomfletcherscats:

tomfletcherscats:

this is how u use tinder right

he came out of left field with this one

Marry him

ironpatriotisstupid:

livemulticulturally:

have you ever just

stopped whatever you were doing

to look at an english word and

“you look like a fake word”

yacht

safetytank:

i mISTOOK THE POLE CAP FOR PART OF ITS FACE

safetytank:

i mISTOOK THE POLE CAP FOR PART OF ITS FACE

insp (x

mahmudasrar:

Preview: All-New X-Men #32

Written by Brian Michael Bendis, drawn by me, coloured by Marte Gracia. Cover by Sara Pichelli.

This here is also my writing debut at Marvel. Well, if you count translating a few words into Turkish.

I like my life, I love my family.

I like my life, I love my family.

buuckybaarnes:

The Russo brothers on Sebastian’s acting in the CA:TWS commentary

Bonus:

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